Sunday, October 23, 2011

Happy 8th Birthday Beautiful Girl.


Today my little girl turns 8.  She's not so little any more, and I love watching her grow into the person she is becoming.....and I am always suprised by the things I have learned over the last 8 years......

Still waters run deep.  She is shy and quiet, but very observant.  She isn't as physically strong as other kids, but she tries - making my heart fill with pride and break all at the same time.  She loves to dance (but only when nobody is watching).  She loves to shut herself up in her room and play music and sing into her microphone.  She has quite a temper - which may come as a surprise to the rest of the world (she usually saves it for us lucky people at home!).  She's daddy's little girl - and knows it.  She has an unexpected thrill-seeking nature - she loves roller coasters and horseback riding.  She loves her friends - a day without a friend coming over is like a day without sunshine.  She isn't very organized - AT ALL (I keep hoping that her organization genes will kick in sometime soon).   She doesn't like to read - but I am still hopeful! She loves to swim.  Everyone thinks she doesn't talk much - until they get her on her own.  She doesn't like large groups and tends to go into herself or escape with a friend or two - if you want to get to know her, spend some time alone with her.  She doesn't like chocolate - simply vanilla please.  She loves watching movies (but scary ones give her nightmares for days).  She likes to watch me play online Srabble on my ipad.  She has an incredible palate - she will eat just about anything (just not very much of it!).  She loves skating - even though it is something that is very physically challenging for her to do, and she falls down - a lot.  She loves to help out in the vegetable garden, and takes great pride in our annual harvest.  She is an introvert - but she loves people - and often doesn't realize she needs to spend some time on her own to recharge, until it's too late.  She's very petite girl with a tiny voice - until you get her mad.  She is loyal, and sticks up for her friends.  She is learning to like babies and small children (this didn't come naturally) - they aren't all gross, even though they do drool.  She loves playing with her Barbies.  She doesn't like shopping.  She doesn't photograph well when you ask her to pose so we rarely buy her annual school photo (ever see that Friend's episode when Chandler and Monica are taking their engagement photos??).  She is definitely starting to develop an attitude, and it's pissing me off. She is learning to be kinder to her brother.  She loves drawing and designing clothes.  She is responsible and follows the rules.  She is devastated when she gets in trouble at school (which has only happened once).  She makes a mess of her room every day when she gets dressed.  She wants to work in an ice-cream store when she grows up.  Her eyes change colour - sometimes they are brown, sometimes they are green.  She doesn't like wearing socks, and I often find them randomly scattered throughout the house.  She has just recently developed a fear of the dark (seriously, now? She's 8!). She likes putting signs up on her door (the current one reads "no little boys alawd").  She's an atrocious speller - and she doesn't care.  She doesn't like tights or leggings that are actually tight.....this causes lots of problems in the morning.  She loves using the camera to take pictures, and she's surprisingly good at it!  She thinks that "strangers" are just friends we haven't met yet.....and I hope she goes through life with that perspective (paired with a little healthy caution). 

Happy 8th Birthday my beautiful girl.

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Growing my Hair..... AUGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

I have very big hair.  Take your definition of big, and multiply it by 5!  Remember that episode of friends when they went down south and Monica's hair got really big?  Well, that's what mine looks like if I don't try to keep it under control.....which is why I have opted for very short hair for the last 15 years - much less to tackle with a flat iron. 
I was getting bored with my short hair and fantasizing about the ability to combat a "bad hair day" by just throwing my hair up in a ponytail - but for 15 years I didn't get very far in growing it out.  But then one day about 9 months ago my little girl came up to me with genuine concern over the fact that I have short hair and rarely wear dresses, she said with tears in her eyes "Mommy, how will people know you're a girl?".  Luckily, she didn't hear my hubby mumble in the background...."it's called a rack". 

Anyhow, my daughter's distress gave me the motivation to try growing my hair out again - it has been a couple of decades, why not try again?  Change is good, right? Well,  we just got back from a week in Mexico where it was very humid, and I didn't spend a lot of time fighting with my wild mane....needless to say, it very vividly reminded me why I had opted short hair for the last 15 years.  In our family pictures from that trip, all I see is my head of very big hair - it's quite distracting.

Right now, I have managed to grow my hair out to chin level - and no matter what products I put into it my hairdo will fall into 1 of 2 camps - wild and crazy or beaten into immovable helmet-like submission.  I am pretty close to giving up my dream of having beautifully wavy hair that is soft and manageable that I can run my fingers through.  Any tips for a girlfriend - before I go out there and shave my head?
 

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Please Excuse my Absence, but life's been busy!

Please accept my humble apologies for not posting in so long..... but as it sometimes does, life got in the way.  I haven't posted in about 3 months, I lost focus and was in "survival" mode.....now that I feel I have things somewhat under control, I hope to start blogging again!

The last few months have been very busy here in our household - our caregiver of 4 years moved on, and I had to get the application process started to bring another caregiver into Canada (let me tell you, the process is not an easy one - a month of evenings was spent filling out the paperwork!!).  So for the last few months, hubby and I have been flying solo with 2 full time jobs, a house, and the kids to take care of (I know, millions of families do this without the benefit of the kind of help I have - but it took some time for us to get adjusted.... and it meant fun things like my blog had to be temporarily put on hold while I took care of the endless piles of laundry).   We have been piecing together childcare as best we can.... and have at least another 3 months before our new caregiver arrives. So, although I hope to start blogging again, it will probably still be somewhat sporadic for the next several months. 

I have also been working very hard on my New Year's Resolutions, hubby and I have been on a diet since June 1, and I am happy to report that we have each lost about 25 pounds!  So, I am quite proud of the work we have done - but I will get into the details of that later.  In the process of losing weight, I learned that I am gluten-intolerant - which explains why I have been feeling so poorly for the last few years.  Needless to say, while I have been figuring out our new way of eating, inspiration on the cooking and baking front has been rather limited!!!

I have also been working on my New Year's Resolution to find a job that I love.  First things first, I had to get my resume in order - that was no easy task! I haven't found a new job yet, like I said, I like my job, I just don't LOVE it - so I have been very particular about the positions I apply for.  But now that my resume is up to date, at least I will be ready to apply for that great job, once the right opportunity presents itself. 

So, overall, I am quite pleased with the progress I have been making on my goals for this year.  The only ones that has slid a little are the "laugh more" and "yell less" ones - sadly without the domestic help I used to have and the stress of all the added paperwork and the childcare shuffle over the last several months (not to mention the diet!) I have been a little crankier than usual. 

Anyhow Girlfriends, keep on keeping on.  I'll try laughing more and yelling less, even in the face of never ending laundry, and meal preparation......(I love to cook, but I don't like feeling CHAINED to the kitchen!). 

Hopefully we will chat again soon!